How to take Right Decisions?
Having decided, let’s do something else, there is a fear of going on stage, that’s why we sit under the decision, depend NC, many times our decisions are dependent on others, friend is doing this, partner is doing this, family is doing this Saying like this and because of this dependency, it becomes our habit, to take decisions according to the validation of others and many times those decisions are not right for us and go wrong. To understand the science of decision making, read this image Look at what do you see in this image, someone must be seeing a young lady in this and someone must be seeing an old lady, same data, but everyone’s decision is different, what happens in your mind while taking the decision? Understands your mind. Three parts of our brain are involved in decision making. Kotak is the hippocampus and amygdala, which is our working memory, meaning our attention at the moment when we are watching what we are thinking. Hippocampus is where our long term memory is, Old memories till now everything is there, our emotions are there, now you see this, you would have taken any decision.
All three are involved. Which career should you choose? You also remember from your memory, what experiences have you had, your emotions are also there, what is your mind and your working memory is also involved, what to do in decision making? Fear of going on stage because there is old experience in hippocampus and then in amygdala then your PFC i.e. working memory says let it be, know love can be cheated, but still why did you fall in love? Because your emotion was very active till your high which part is dominant depends on how you take decisions whose attention working memory is very active they keep thinking, keep thinking, keep thinking, don’t take decision With some people, they think so much that they are unable to take a decision, they are dominant, they take an impulsive decision, they take a decision without thinking much, if all these three work together in a balanced way, then you can take a rational decision. In the image, some have seen young lady, some have seen old lady, it depends on this thing.
What is your edge and what kind of people do you meet, only then you can reach it, how to make auto strong? Share some funds with you, you will be very useful. The first is five second roll. In childhood, you must have heard that six second roll that if the food falls, pick it up quickly, within five to six seconds nothing will go wrong. Follow the rules, there are some who don’t make any special impact on our life. second you condition your brain second funda for fast decision learn from those who take big decisions in the world co stop entrepreneurs leaders how they save their energy to make big decisions Don’t waste your time Don’t waste your energy Every morning you wake up thinking what to wear today? What to eat now? What to eat now, thinking many times a day, what to do this week, what to do today
What to do, what to do tomorrow, how much time, how much energy and waste do Mark Zuckerberg, Steve Jobs and Barack Obama do? They automate their decisions, either they wear the same clothes everyday or their clothes are pre-planned, when and what to eat, every day is known in advance, sitting one day in the week, decided what to do this week, when to do that. One, you save the energy of your mind, you don’t spend it in small decisions, second, you save your time, there is no time wasted in thinking many times a day, and third, because diseases are automated, you don’t take wrong decisions. Many times we are not able to take a decision that we think that to take this decision, we need complete knowledge first, what should be known about Hundred? But leaders don’t think like this when they say that if you have seventy percent information to take any decision, that too is enough? Because if there is more knowledge then there will be more choice and more confusion May be but that seventy percent information is most important
The next funda should be negative visualization if you are not able to take a decision then think about what could happen from worst to worst what could happen if you are prepared for it then you will become a strong and confident person. If you are able to take a decision, we talk about Robert taking a decision sitting in an impulsive OK feeling and one in a mindful decision, taking a thoughtful decision with a stable mind; if you had merit, you would have stabilized your mind. Yes, you don’t get swayed by emotions and are able to take decisions being mindful. The next funda will be useful for many people. You wait for others, so what do we have to do according to what others tell us? First we have to take small risks on small decisions, or it will be good or it will be bad, it will be good, very good, if it becomes bad then understand or it is the cost of building your confidence, there is fee, little by little it will be bad little by little
It will be good, but you will get used to taking it on your own, your confidence will build, you will feel freedom, you will feel free to take decisions and I am also giving you a decision making model. You can use now I would like to tell you about my very special project success if you join item success program you get one of my three arms life mastery workshop if ten minute video can impact your life If yes, then three hours of training can change your life, apart from this, every month you get a live session and you become a part of a community where everyone is growth minded, everyone wants to move forward, everyone wants to support each other. You get many more inside this program and through it every day me and my team are changing the lives of people, if you have not yet become a part of it, then below is the link in the description on which you will get all the details and you can download it. can and I hope you enjoy watching this video
Had taken a decision today, your decision making will be strong and smart, see you again in the next video, till then be happy, keep spreading happiness, I love you all